Why does Maxime-Henri take 75 hours to get dressed even if his clothes are ready to be put on? Why does Simone-Fleur have a tantrum when going into the bath and another one so as not to get out? Why does Lili-Soleil forget the instructions she understood very well 0.24 seconds ago? Where do crises come from, the refusal to share, the endless pre-sleep routines, the discovery of one's body, impulsiveness or separation anxiety? So many questions... Contrary to popular guides that give the same tips to everyone, this funny, benevolent, guilt-free book, a little insider and wonderfully practical, allows you to identify the hidden need behind the behavior of your ti-pou. By inviting parents to first ask themselves this big question: "What do I see nd my child does that?" The ti-pou d'AmÔerique offers a non-judgmental approach that validates that it's tough if you want parenting. And which normalizes the parent's feelings even if it is his responsibility to understand his child in order to better intervene with him. So, we put our preconceived ideas in the trash and we take our child by the hand, where he is and not where he should be according to the Internet (or the sister-in-law whose ti-pou is so damn perfect).